in a responsible way with love. They should be shown tough love when needed, never abuse them, and know that each and every child is different, they all learn, and understand differently. Always make sure that a child has an understanding when being shown tough love. Tell them that you love them, give them hugs, the boys and girls.
Let boys know that it's alright to cry, for we all are human, and have emotions. Teach the children that they never should become a bully, and most of all a child should learn the truth about God, and what he expects of us.
If you the parent or guardian has never raised the child/children under your care right, if you were, or are only concered about being their friend instead of being their parent, or if your worried about hurting their feelings,
then what should you expect. Why should you cry if they end up murdered, or on drugs? amoung other things, if you have done what you were suppose to do, and they end up going the wrong way in life, or if they end up getting killed, then it's not your fault, you have done all that you could.
From; The Speakers of Organization